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Thursday, June 24, 2010

Hunter Blackstone Goold







To all our family and friends. Thank you for your love and prayers during this tragic time in our families life.



Our sweet brother Hunter, left his earthly life yesterday, June 23rd, 2010, to return to our Father in Heaven and to start his missionary work on the other side.



Hunter passed away in Utah after an accident on the Lake. He was with family and seems to have suffered a seizure while in the water and drowned.



Hunter was loved by so many. His incredible spirit brought smiles to faces all around him. His charming personality and witty character kept us laughing.



Hunter's poor body wasn't very fair to him in this life so our hearts are at peace to know that he can be seziure free in Heaven and suffer no more.



Mom is asking for me to collect notes that people have left in regards to our loss. She wants something to look back on to smile and remember how many people Hunter Boy loved and who loved him.



If you have a story about Hunter, or a memory of him, or any kind of comment about Hunter or for the family please leave a comment so we can have a place for Mom to go.



Thank you again for your love. It means the world to My Father and My mother and us girls.



We Love you Hunter Boy. To The Moon and Back and once Around The Stars!






ps. if you are having trouble leaving a comment here please feel free to send an email to: 7littlegoolds@gmail.com and leave your notes there.






Love,



The Sisters.

55 comments:

  1. The Gentry Family has known Hunter since he was a boy. He has grown into a good man. We are grateful to have know him as long as we have. We are also grateful to know that he can continue to be a good man and a wonderful missionary to all those who need him. We will see him again. Until then we will see him again in our hearts and minds as a man that had that unforgettable smile, a playful heart and example to all on how to give service to others.
    Our hearts ache for everyone.

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  2. I don't think I've earned the privilege to be one of the first to post a memory here...but I had to get on this the second I saw it.

    That Hunter character was one funny kid! I remember when I first arrived in the mission field, one of my first stops was the Goold house. There was never a dull moment! The excitement was often center around good ol' Hunter! He reminded me of one of my cousins (I don't think I ever told him that) I'm pretty sure they were chums in the spirit world. Anywho, I remember one day we stopped at the Goold home and Hunter welcomed us in. Within a few seconds we realized it was just us and him. (not ok according to mission rules). I'm sure he was already aware of this rule but didn't seem to mind...he was just "Hunter" what harm could it do? I remember talking to him thinking..."Who the heck does this kid think he is? I'm pretty sure he's flirting with Sister Missionaries!" It's a good thing he was a youngster in comparison to us...or there may have been a few problems! I remember my first experience with the fire department at the Goold home, and yep, you guessed it, Hunter was the cause (thanks for letting me take a glimpse of those delightful looking firemen...18 months and no boys...it was much needed!) Ahh...good times! The world will definitely miss that kid...Heaven is pretty luck right now!

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  3. Its a lot to take in but one of the first memories that popped onto my head was that of Hunter walking down the hall to the dining room after dinner in a dress being silly :)With everyone around the table laughing and cracking jokes. Though that was a few years ago that's how I remember your son, bring a smile to everyones face. Its a small memory.. one of many. All my love and prayers xoxo-Pocahontas

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  4. I will always remember all the great love Hunter showed to so many. Bishop Miller would well up with tears when telling me how, out of the blue, Hunter would just show up to mow his lawn. It is comforting to know that Hunter will no longer have those seizures that haunted him throughout his teens and led to his untimely death. He was growing into a great man, and he will be able to grow even more now.

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  5. Shelleylee, Grant and the girls
    Words can't express how much my heart hurts for all of you right now. I know that Hunter is in a better place and that as you said, his body is now at peace. I envision him hanging out with Grandma Honey :) There are so many thoughts going through my head in trying to think of one memory - this is so silly but the first thing i thought of was that Hunter and Grant were HUGELY instrumental in getting Jacob potty trained all those years ago - i needed a "guys" perspective and they were there! like i said silly, but maybe a chuckle is what we all need. I love you guys. we're here if you need us for anything - Love Laura, Matthew, Allison, Jacob, Cortni & Chelsea

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  6. I remember when Hunter and the others would go outside and play some unknown yet fun games that I have never heard of before. There were other times that I also remember that we would go into his room and watch the movie Jaws and some other shows that I would usually never been able to see. But there are also sometimes, that he would always act out as a great cousin and brother to those that he had cared for the most. I know that this is a tragic thing that has happened to the Goold family. I know now that Hunter is now in a world that is pain free and on a mission that is with Heavenly Fathers care and I KNOW, that he and Heavenly Father along with our other family members are watching over us now. My one wish...my one wish that I could ever wish for is that we all keep the memories...the memories of the fun we had together nd the love and care we have given him till his time of passing. We all need to love, we all need to feel, and we all need to remmeber...remember...cause we know he's out there, watching and waiting for when we come with open arms.

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  7. My heart is breaking for your family. I am so deeply sorry. Our family has wonderful memories of Brad and Hunter together starting as little 3 years old kiddos at Little Methodist School. Then onto Cambridge Heights and with Mitch coaching them for so many years in little league baseball!! I have many sweet pictures of him and I am blessed to have gotten to know the Goold family many years ago! Please know that your family is in our prayers and you can call me for any help you may need, I will always be here for you! Love you

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  9. Just wanted to send our love. You're family is so awesome and we pray that comfort finds you constantly throughout this time. Love--Jayson & JeNae Wendell

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  10. It is with a sad and heavy heart that I write these words to Ben's other brother and family. Hunter to Ben was a brother. Ben loves going to the Goolds and interacting with Hunter. They talked, they wrestled, they joked and most importantly they ate. To us, Hunter and the entire Goold Family are our extended family. We feel blessed to have our lives touch the lives of Hunter and his family. Hunter was truely a mentor to Ben in many ways and was well on his way to becoming a very handsome, fine upstanding man. I am glad to know Hunter will no longer be in pain and will be watching over all whom he loves as their guardian angel. Hunter...it was incredible to know you and again we are so very glad we had the opportunity to have our lives intersect yours. RIP now and know you and your family will always be in our hearts and deeply loved. With eternal love, respect and sympathy to Grant, Shelley, Kyla, Aubrey, McKenna and Haley...We are so sorry for you loss...Stephanie, Ben and Sam

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  11. Dear Goold's,
    You are definitely in my prayers. Hunter always had a smile for everyone. I loved how he led the youth in his sphere. The other kids really looked up to him and he noticed that and nurtured those around him.
    My deepest sorrow for your loss. I'm glad you have the love of each other and your family and friends.
    Love,
    Bev Tracy

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  12. Goold Family. Our memories of Hunter go back very far. From Grant and me coaching his baseball team, to being one of his scout leaders, to all the Goold kids playing soccer in the church when we were supposed to be cleaning, we always had great times. Hunter was like a brother to Ryan and Ashley and they always felt like the Goold family was theirs whenever they were around. We were all truly blessed to know such a fun loving, affectionate and wonderful person in Hunter and will always keep him close to us in our hearts. Love, the Douglas family

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  13. Dear Shelley, Grant & Kids:
    I remember Hunter's blessing (when he was born), and just loving the name you chose for him. His name was definitely the topic of conversation that day.
    Stay strong...families are forever. Tons of love, Renee McDougall

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  14. Growing up with Hunter was such a blessing. I remember when we were 4 years old and the Goold's lived behind the Smith's and drove a green station wagon. I loved visiting the Goold's home even as a young child so that I could play games with Hunter. I remember we would run around in sprinklers, chase each other around the entire home, play with action figures in the back of the station wagon where no one could see us, and foot race everyday at soccer practice (he would beat me every time!). When we got a bit older in elementary school we were best buds. I remember we would write with chalk on his cement floor and play football in the streets until cars would scream profanity at us. We also tried really hard to convince Matt and Haley that they should kiss each other when they were like 3 years old. But then our moms saw what we were trying to do and yelled at us. Ha. He was always the life of the party. I am so grateful I had the opportunity of driving him to early morning seminary every morning in high school. One of the funniest memories I have of him is when he would call me at 6 in the morning, half asleep, with the voice that sounded like an 85 year old smoker on his death bed saying, "Hello? Kaaaaatie. It's Hunterrrr Goooooold. I'm not gunnnnna be going to seminary this morninggggg." It cracked me up every time because it seemed like he was trying extra hard to convince me to not come over and bang on his window to wake him up as I often did. But, when he did wake up, we would have so much fun blasting music, dancing in the car, and he would scream at every pedestrian we would pass too, just to scare them. Haha. We have been best buds from the beginning, and I will never forget all the fun times we have had. I am so happy that he is free from seizures and that he has the opportunity to preach the Gospel in the next life. I love you, Bro. You will be missed. Lots of prayers for the entire Goold family. Much love, Katie Zavoral.

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  15. We love you so much and are thinking of you during this tough time. Hunter was such a wonderful guy. Always helpful and such a hard worker. Ready to help the neighbors mow their lawn or anything that needed to be done. He had such a giving heart. He will be greatly missed.
    Love,
    The Commins

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  16. On behalf of the Shaw family, we want to know that you have all been a beautiful example to so many around you. Hunter has always been such a loving brother to his sisters, a gift to his parents, and a beautiful blessing to his friends and neighbors. Its seems like just yesterday I saw him walking up our street with Mocha. Hunter never walked by without acknowledging us and making us always feel so special with his unforgettable smile and his sweet "hello's".. I always loved to see him as he was always a bright spot in our day. Long story short, Shelley, I don't believe Hunter ever forgot what he stood for, you taught him well. We love you all and pray that you all feel God's arms completely wrapped around your family.

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  18. Although I never met Hunter -- and from what I've read and heard, I REALLY missed out -- I absolutely adore his parents. Goold family, my hope is that your faith and the love of your extended "family" is sustaining you during this unfathomable time. That, and the knowledge that Hunter surely knew he was well loved every single day of his short life. My thoughts, prayers, love and heartfelt condolences go out to all of you. -- Joellen McGruder

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  19. I loved having Hunter in seminary. He was always up for a good time. Sometimes it seemed that all I saw was the top of his head on the desk and then up it would pop and something profound would come forth from his mouth. He knew the gospel well and had a lovely testimony.

    I love Malachi 3:3 where it talks about the Savior sitting a refiner and purifier of silver. He watches closely as his silver is heated and as soon as he can see his reflection in the molten ore he removes it quickly from the fire.

    I'm certain that the Savior was watching closely as Hunter suffered in the fire of his afflictions in these last couple of years. When He saw that the mission of mortality was accomplished He removed that young man from the "heat" and took him home.

    I can only imagine the joy in paradise when Hunter arrived home.

    My prayers are with you as you mourn his loss. Thanks for your lovely example of strength and testimony.

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  20. I remember asking Hunter to give me a hug, one time after a priesthood class and one time at scout camp. Both times I remember thinking how much I loved this young man. I loved it when he smiled. How grateful I am for the plan of salvation, knowing the Lord knows Hunters heart and he will receive a great reward in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Brother Thomas

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  21. To Shelley, Grant and girls, please know that we love you and are thinking of you and mourning your loss with you. When you live in one area long enough, all of our kids seem to belong to everyone. We feel keenly your joys and sorrows and know that Hunter has just moved onto his next calling a little sooner than the rest of us. We love you all and pray for your peace and comfort.

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  22. Hunter will be deeply missed. He had such a sweet heart and the most unmeasurable love for his sisters. I remember days at the Goold house and if his sisters had a problem with some boy at school Hunter was the first to step up for them. He was so loving and sweet but also so strong willed and passionate for what he knew was right. My greatest memory of hunter was on the trek. He was my brother in our trek family. When we were going down a steep hill, and i was pulling the rope in the back. When the wagon got to heavy for me Hunter offered to trade me spots. He had such a respect for women it was amazing. Goold family I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through, just know that you are in my prayers. I love you all.
    Love, Amber Mann

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  23. My dear dear Goolds~ While I didn't have the honor of knowing Hunter as a young man, I did have the blessing of knowing "Hunter Boy" from birth until about 2 or 3. What an amazing, bubbly and glorious gift from God. I have no words to say - as anything seems trivial and in vain. Your loss is something personal and painful so I will merely continue to pray for you all and hope that you find comfort in the fact that Hunter is no longer trapped in this earthly body that limited him and know that he is with our Heavenly Father and Grandma Honey! XOXO

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  24. Shelley, Grant, and girls...
    I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. What I see in my mind when I think of Hunter is his incredible smile! Always infectous and warm. My memories are mostly from when he was young, but he was a silly, sweet kid. I know that he is in our Heavenly Fathers loving presences and able to continue with his mission there.

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  25. We have had the privelege of knowing Hunter since he was a little boy. I can still remember having him in my sunbeam class and have truly enjoyed watching him grow into a wonderful young man.

    I always appreciated how deeply he cared for his friends and family. And I particularly appreciated how on occasion he would take Tyler under his wing. I know Jonathan really enjoyed talking with Hunter and teasing him often. Tate says he will miss his buddy.
    We will all miss Hunter. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
    The Williams Family

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  26. I didn't know Hunter well, but I always thought of him as such a Golden Boy with his bright blond hair and his contagious smile and cheerful ways. My heart is broken for your family and my prayers go out for you, that you will be able to find comfort in the Savior's atonement and the plan of salvation. We love you.
    Michal Thomas

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  27. I remember Hunter as a preschooler at Little Methodist in my class. I remember Hunter and the girls as "sweet little people" as Laurrel and Michelle would babysit occasionally. My heart is sad for your loss. We send our love and you are in our prayers.
    Ellen Sly

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  28. It's been some time now, but I will never forget his kind smile. Hunter, keep on smiling buddy!

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  29. I didn't know Hunter very well personally, but if he is anything like the rest of the Goold family, I know that he must've been a wonderful guy. After reading all the beautiful things people have had to say about him on this page, I'm sad that I missed out on knowing him. Goold family, you are in my prayers. Hunter will be definitely be missed, but he is in a better place with a more perfect body that won't trouble him anymore.

    Many condolences and love to the Goold family,
    Erin Rundell

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  30. What a tragic loss for your family. We hope you are able to find some peace and comfort during this time. What a wonderful family you are and to endure this kind of trial would be tremendously difficult. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Love, Scott and Emily Hill

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  31. Dear Goold Family, there are many memories that we have had with your family over the years. Back in the days when the kids were all in elementary school together, we'd carpool and Scott would tease Hunter and call him "Fisher" instead!

    So many years later he became a member of our family on the Trek. His name switched, from Hunter, to Fisher, to Grinder! This nick name was earned due to his extreme ability to skate board grind down rocks without a skate board while pushing and pulling a hand cart!

    He was a leader who cared about his eternal family as well as his trek family! He was a joy in our family and we both received joy every time he called out for "Ma or Pa"! It was good to get to know the real Hunter. Sometimes it takes hard times and difficulties to bring out ones real personality and character. It was a privilege to be able to experience the man that Hunter was and is.

    After the trek we continued to exchange phone calls, and hugs. Scott loved it when the phone would ring and he'd pick it up to hear a voice on the other end say, "Pa - it's Grinder, do you have time to talk." How grateful we are for the time we had to share with this great boy...man!

    We love each of you, and are grateful for our friendship. Please know that our thoughts and prayers, and prayers, and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

    Love, Ma and Pa McKee

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  32. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Hunter mostly through my brother, Blain. My only real personal interaction was when my family was preparing to move to the east coast, we enlisted Blain's help clearing out a storage unit and Hunter, 15 at the time, came with him. I was touched by his willingness to help people he didn't really know.

    Such a sweet boy. You all are in my, and I know the entire Boden family's, thoughts and prayer's.

    Love,
    Kim Boden Verdoorn

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  33. I will always remember Hunter for his ready smile. He always seemed happy to see you and always responded to you about what was going on in his life. It is hard to realize that someone so full of life is now on a better journey.
    My love and prayers are with all of you.
    Dee Sly

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  34. I am so very sorry to hear that dear Hunter is gone. I remember Hunter as a wonderful junior high school boy, whom I always enjoyed talking with. He always had a beautiful smile on his face. He will surely be missed by all who knew him. Your family is special to all of us at Barrett.

    Love,
    Wendy Carlson

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  35. I 'knew' Hunter before there was a Hunter to know. I met his dear mother way back when, when we worked to together and became fast and furious friends, Shelley became Vern to my 'Auntie Pam'....I can remember her and Grant's excitement when they learned that the baby she was carrying had "different plumbing" than the 2 little girls they already had. My first fun memory of that little guy was when his 2 'big' sisters decided to take their baby brother outside to "look at the birds"-Hunter couldn't have been more than 5-6 months old. Well, here I come driving up the lane, ready to turn into the driveway when I saw a doll laying smack dab in the middle of the drive, I started to get out to move the doll when said doll started moving it's arms and legs!!! That "doll" was Hunter and as I picked him up to take him in, I couldn't help laughing at all the little pebbles of gravel that were embedded in his little head---I love that memory. I hurt for myself, for Hunter's friends, his extended family and most especially his beautiful sisters and loving parents. I can not imagine a place in this world without him, he was just hitting his stride, realizing his potential. However, as we are all saying, "no don't go, we're not ready to let you go", there were other loving voices saying "welcome home beloved boy". The Garrett family will miss that beautiful, charming young man and ALL our love, tears, smiles and prayers go out to our friends...Grantman, Vern, Ky-by, Aubyoyo, Mickey G and Hayley Bayley. Love you madly, 'Auntie Pam'

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  36. Hey Goold Family!

    I married Katie and Hunter in our backyard one balmy summer afternoon when they were about 3. Neither of them objected! In fact Hunter's red face was all smiles though the whole ceremony!

    A couple of years later I was babysitting all of Goold kids, when to my horror I found Hunter mashing all of the homemade play-dough I had brought into the driveway like it was his job! What a funny kid, and a great memory. Seemed like he always had to have a task to do.

    Although I don't remember many details of babysitting in your home, I do remember the love I felt there. There has always been something special about your family. It has been fun to whatch them grow up into such amazing, fun spirited, beautiful people.... but then again... I would not expect anything differnt to be the product of Shelly and Grant!

    My heart aches for your loss. I am sure Hunter has now taken task amongst the faithful in the Spirit World. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family.

    Love,
    Melissa Z

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  37. The moment I heard of Hunter's passing, my thoughts instantly flashed back to my best memory of Hunter. It was the last day of seminary. I believe it was Senior year. I remember always sitting by Hunter when he came to class, and we would share what was going on in our lives. Hunter always gave me the best advice. Anyways, on the last day of seminary, the teacher had asked us students to give our testimonys and thoughts on the church and the past seminary year. If anyone was in that seminary class with us, they would remember Hunter and his funny comments. And so when he stood up to speak to the class that day, I couldn't even imagine what he was going to say. I don't even remember what he said, but I do remember that I got goosebumps. I remember being so shocked at the wonderful things he had to say of the church and of his love for God. Hunter was an amazing person. He was so full of life and love. I know I'm one of many many others who will miss him.

    With love,

    Tori Edlow

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  38. I just wanted to tell you how wonderful of a son you had. He NEVER failed to put a smile on my face. He was my first boyfriend in middle school and we were together all middle school. Once freshman year came around all we could was laugh about it because it was crazy how much taller his first girlfriend was then him.
    I remember we had a freshman seminar class together and he would bring breakfast every morning for us to share. He always had the kindest heart.
    Once hunter went to home school, it just happened to be my sister out of all teachers to teach him. My sister called me after the first meeting with him and told me how wonderful the Goolds family was and how funny Hunter was. There first time of meeting up was on a tuesday and every single tuesday after that for about 3 months he would call me to tell me about his week and how my sister was.
    If anything went wrong in my week or something big happened I always knew I had hunter to tell on Tuesday night. He was always a wonderful person to talk to. Every tuesday night for the rest of my life I will be thinking of him.
    You have such a strong family, and I look up to you guys. My prayers are going out for you and I am sorry for your loss.
    I will be one of the so many missing him everyday.

    love,
    Sammie Clevenger

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  39. Sadly it’s been so long since I have seen Hunter. I attended seminary school, school, and church with Hunter. We were good friends. I moved my senior year, but I have known Hunter so many years. I couldn’t help but always smile and laugh whenever I was near Hunter. He was a very funny guy and you never really knew what he would say or do next. He could always make me smile. No matter what mood I was in. He would cheer me up. I have so many great memories that I could think of with Hunter. My favorite one would have to be, sitting in his empty pool, with a TV in it, and watching movies. Who does that?? Hunter and I did. I thought we were so silly for doing that, but there isn’t anything that I wouldn’t give to do it again. Good times. I want to thank Hunter’s family and Heavenly father, for blessing me with Hunter. He was such a great friend. Thank you Heavenly father for allowing Hunter to rest, I know he is so very tired, he goes now to his rest at peace knowing that he has done right with his time on this earth.

    My prayers are going out to his family and I am sorry for your loss.


    Love,
    Chalene Hurst

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  40. Hi Goold Family,
    We are so saddened for you at this time. We only got to know Hunter the last few years, but thought there couldn't be a greater guy. He always had a smile ready and always had time to stop and share it with you. One day he was out riding his bike with his dog and stopped to chat with us in the front yard and play with the kids a bit. He offered to help us landscape our yard, which we thought was so sweet. Even cuter though was that he was looking out for his dad. He said that his Dad had the bus parked out in front of their house and that his Dad would just love it if we stopped by to see it so he could show it off. Hunter was all about family, and you could tell he really loved his. We bet he will make an awesome guardian angel for his sisters! You are in our thoughts and prayers, we love you.
    The Benefeito family

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  41. I have had the honor of working with Grant in his effort to spare other families of the pain which you are going through today. I can't begin to express how sorry I am for your loss of Hunter. There are no words to make it right. All I know is that he will live on through (and in) each of you. I hope and pray that your love for each other will only deepen and you will find a way through this sadness.
    Tom Merriman
    Cleveland, Ohio

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  42. I'm not even sure I can pick a particular favorite memory that involved Hunter Goold. I have known Hunter for many years now. I have loved every second I spent with him. We have really shared plenty of wonderful times. From seminary, dance celebrations, middle school and high school memories, and so much more. Hunter and I sat in the back of seminary together(when I did make it there that is). Our teachers probably wanted to ring our necks from how much we talked and laughed together. Hunter was always the person to make me laugh, smile, or cheer me up when I was half asleep or just having a bad day. We used to talk all the time and rack up my parent's phone bill. I even had a secret crush on him once when we were little tykes. He was the greatest for my go-to advice, or simply just an understanding ear to vent to.I specifically remember one funny memory with Hunter on our sixth grade field trip to Point Bonita. Hunter and I were close friends at the time. On the trip, there was a cabin for all the girls, and one for all the boys. Hunter and I had planned to go on a walk. So, I went over to the boys cabin to get him. Since I was not aloud inside being a girl, I told a boy who went inside to tell Hunter I was outside for him, while I waited in front of the glass door. The next thing I knew, I saw Hunter running from the showers to his room, butt naked. Naturally, being the 13 year old kid I was at the time, I was totally shocked, never seeing a naked boy before. It was and still is one of the funniest experiences I can remember. Years later Hunter and I would still joke about it. Hunter was the most sincere, kind, happy, funny, giving, and greatest young men I have come in contact with. His spirit was so pure,sweet, and evident, that is was a real treat to be in his very presence. I love you Goolds so much and feel for your loss. Your family is in my prayers and I send my love. As for you Hunter, I love you.You were the greatest friend to me. You will always hold a special place in my heart. I know you will continue to look after me as you did when you were here. I will miss you every day, and already do. But lucky you, you finally did it! I can't wait to hug you on the other side. God be with you till we meet again darlin'.

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  43. Dear Goold family - I think the very first time that Hunter and I became acquainted is when he realized that I was Ma McKee's Ma. I found him to be very personable and was very impressed at how warm, friendly, and sincere our conversation was. From that time on, whenever we would see one another, he was ready with that trademark smile and a friendly hello. He seemed very at ease with himself and others – he had that kind of natural magnetic quality that could only be known to the child of Shelley and Grant Goold. It was very obvious that he had been nurtured by the very best – four beautiful sisters, and parents who knew no bounds in sacrificing all that they have in raising such fine children. Grant and Shelley, your family has always been a fine example of “being the best that you can be” – a direct response to a Prophet’s voice and to your fabulous leadership skills. May the Lord continue to surround you with His peace and comfort as you navigate this rocky trail. We love your family dearly and pray that you may find strength in knowing that “they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31) Bless you for being the wonderful family you are. Much love, the Petty family

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  44. Dear Goold Family,
    Our family is deeply saddened by the loss of Hunter. We thank you for the pleasure of coaching Hunter as a Fair Oaks Viper. There wasn't a practice or a game that went by that Hunter didn't make us laugh. He was a joy to coach and more so to watch play. We remember Hunter in that whatever he did, his spirit was high and always full of life. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time and we know that you have a wonderful guardian angel watching over you.

    Dave, Martina, Lance and Erin Jarvis

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  45. The first time I met Hunter was before the ward boundaries were changed; the Goold family was in our stake, but not our ward...there was some kind of scouting preparation taking place, and Hunter came to our house with Blaine. Blaine proudly introduced Hunter as his nephew, and Hunter smiled broadly and nodded when I said "really?" Later Blaine pulled me aside to inform me that Hunter wasn't really his nephew, but Hunter and his family were such great people that they treated Blaine just like he was family too....and so he was delighted to be considered "Uncle" Blaine. Hunter must have been 12 or 13 at that time, kind of a little short guy then, wearing his scout shirt and just as cute as could be....and actually my first impression of Hunter was that he was very well mannered. Sometime after we became a part of the Northridge Ward, I served as a Sunday School teacher for some of the youth, and Hunter was occasionally in my class. Although sometimes a bit mischievous, he still was able to stay on top of what was being discussed. He was quick witted, many times sharing a great sense of humor, always respectful and courteous, and all of this I enjoyed and appreciated very much. I was always pleased when he would greet me when seeing me elsewhere aside from the class room, and he continued to be friendly after I had long been released as his teacher. The last time I saw Hunter was just recently, I was coming out from a home in his neighborhood after a visit, it was a beautiful day, and he was riding by on a bike with his chocolate lab happily running out in front of him. He raised his arm in a friendly wave, had a big smile on, and shouted "Hi!" What a nice picture that was, and especially for me to remember him by. My husband Judson was acquainted with Hunter too, and enjoyed interacting with him. More than once Judson has come home and stated "that Hunter Goold is a good kid". In an email message this week, Elder Joseph Morgan expressed sadness in learning about Hunter's passing, and then reflected on the Plan of Salvation....in the last week alone, he taught the plan to investigators at least ten times, and continues to gain a greater depth of understanding about it. He shared his compassion for the Goold family and said "they're strong and they know the same things I do......please let them know that I'm thinking about them and praying for them."
    Even though we are certain that no heart could ever be prepared for deep sorrow, how grateful we are for the Plan of Salvation! We extend our sincere condolences to the Goold family.
    Judson and Leslie

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  46. I met Hunter when I was five years old in school. A small boy with blond hair and bright eyes. All through elementary school he always had many friends and loved to talk. In the fourth grade they showed us the 'sex ed' video and shortly after we had lunch. Hunter was running around with Devin Mederos saying "Girls have eggs!" I thought oh my gosh they saw our video! It was hilarious now that i think about it. In sixth grade some of the girls got a lot taller than the boys. One day Hunter started saying Godzilllla and laughing. That day at lunch I decided to put a hot sauce packet in his chocolate milk. When he started to drink it he spit it out and I couldn't help but laugh. I thought he was going to be so upset but instead he laughed and dared someone else to drink it. Mrs. Goold was also our art dosent at school and we always looked forward to her visits. I attended middle school with Hunter where he began to change and grow. I didn't get to see him much after that until one day Junior year I happened to see him and he had a huge smile on his face and said Hi. I did not know Hunter in his last few years but I did get to grow up with him as a child. I can only clearly remember those moments but there were many more. For the Goold's I can not imagine how you all feel but my prayers are with you and I know that Hunter is with god watching over you.

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  47. I didn't know Hunter well. But The one thing that was always made abundantly clear to me through his actions was how much he respected women. It didn't matter who they were what they were doing or if he knew them. He was always immpecably polite.

    I remember for my first trip to the temple to do baptisms I was scared out of my wits!!! I was assigned to sister Goolds car and it was all girls... excepting Hunter. Sister Goold pulled us aside for a "girl talk" and hunter on the other side of the just stood there and looked around nonchalantly. You know that innocent I can't hear anything just enjoying the scenery look. When the "girl talk" was over he proceeded to open the door and let us all file in. He helped me figure out the belt buckle and smiled the whole way to the temple. He was an amazing person. He will be sorely missed. He would have made some lucky girl out there very happy. But he didn't get that chance. It's true. The good die young. He was as good as it got.

    My heart and prayers go out to you Goold family
    Rest assured. He is with god now

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  48. Dear Grant, Shelley, & family,
    The Graham's send you our love & prayers. My heart has ached & tears dropped as I heard the news. I wish I had some perfect, magical words, but alas I don't. Of course as I have thought about Hunter, a smile couldn't help but creep upon my face. I can't remember any other expression on his face but a big grin! He was such a handsome spitfire as I recall. Great wit & humor....would expect nothing less from a Goold! He will be greatly missed. Please know your family is greatly loved. May peace fill your hearts during this difficult time & know that you have the support of MANY both here & on the other side.

    Love, Francie Graham & Family

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  49. Shelley, Grant and Entire Family,
    We were so saddened to hear the news of Hunter's passing. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you guys at this time. We know all too well what it is like to loose a son but through the gospel we all get through it. Please also know that we love you even though we don't see you very often. My mom and dad (Oren and Mary) and Randy also send their condolensces. Lots Love, Terri and Guy Wentzel

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  50. Uncle Grant, Aunt Shelly, Kyla, Aubs, Mickey G, and Haley-
    Love you guys sooo much. Glad we could be near you during this tragedy, so we could give you as many hugs as possible. The amazing thing about you as that through it all you were still able to pull together as a family, to laugh, to cry, to be there for one another. We know we will see him again, but it still is so hard.
    I remember right when we found out that your mom was expecting a boy. We could not have been happier for Uncle Grant, as he was not used to being surrounded by girls. I remember many family dinners where he and my Dad came up with all kinds of crazy name ideas. I have many memories of holding you all as babies. Many other memories of babysitting you: I loved hanging out with you guys and letting you stay up late, and then as soon as we saw your parents headlights driving up the lane, you all ran as fast as you could to your beds and "pretended" to be asleep. More than anything I just have a collection of happy memories of spending every major holiday (the 4th of July, Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays...etc) together and just all the fun and laughs we always shared.
    Hunter, even though much younger than us, never had any problem teasing, joking and dishing it right back to us. He was such a Goold :) in a good way. Such a cute kid and so quick to smile. He also had that telltale smirk right before he was about to say some smart aleck remark. We miss him so much.So grateful to have to gospel to get us through this time. Love you more than I can say.
    Love,
    Krystal

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  51. I never had the pleasure of meeting Hunter and it sure sounds like I missed out! However, i know the Goold family and Grant and Shelley from our Young adult days. I was at the funeral today and what a beautiful service it was. Grant,Shelley and family please know that your are so loved and my thoughts and prayers are with you. You have a beautiful family and FAMILIES ARE FOREVER!! Love, Lisa (Stephenson)Nelson

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  52. One of my first “encounters” with Hunter was at the Goolds home when he was about 13 years old. I was in the garage visiting with Aubrey when Hunter walked in. Without a word he pulled all the cushions and pillows off the couch and put them in front of the fridge. I asked him what he was doing. He just smiled, climbed on the couch and with amazing athleticism leaped off horizontally, planting both of his feet against the fridge pushing himself off into the pillows. I was impressed, but the mommy side of me had to say, “You’re gonna hurt yourself”. He just looked at me like “So” and continued doing it a few more times until he landed wrong on his ankle and hurt himself. He didn’t seem to care that he was hurt, more that he was bored and went off to find something else to do. I laughed so hard.

    Hunter will be missed but his crazy sense of humor and love for others will live on in your family. Your family holds a special place in my heart. Thank you for your examples of service and love, and your unwavering testimonies. Thank you for bringing Kevin into your home and treating him as a family member. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to repay your family for your kindness.

    Love, Nicole Perrine

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  53. Dearest Goold Family,

    We were saddened to hear about your son, Hunter. We have your family in our thoughts and prayers.

    God Bless,
    Barton Family

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  54. All boy. That is what I remember about Hunter. As two year olds, Jessica was the girly girl and Hunter the mud between the toes look at this cool bug type little boy. He was the energizer bunny disguised with those beautiful eyes and crazy blond hair. We didn't go to the park in those days-we went to the Goold's. I remember being told about his latest exploits like getting into lipstick and getting it everywhere. Going to fairy tale land and the zoo-and him LOVING the big tractor. Playing in the sprinklers. Driving Shelley crazy, but then that little smile.
    We love the Goold family, and we love Hunter. 'Til we meet again.

    All our love,
    The Bassett Family

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  55. Hunter and i met on the stake trek about two years ago. He and i instantly clicked and became best friends! it was amazing! about two weeks after he and i met i got my wisdom teeth out and he wanted to see me all swollen and drugged up. He demanded that i come over so my good friend Ann drove me over to his house and as soon as i walking in the house and hunter saw me and my chubby cheeks he died laughing! He from then on called me chubs! I would usually try and talk people out of giving me a nickname like that but there was no way Hunter was going to stop! He was such a great friend to me in a brotherly way! Such an awesome kid! I love hunter very much and the goold family!

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